Rules of Engagement

To better understand this blog site please see the first entry titled, "Rules of Engagement". The original post was on 9 May 12. It was updated on 22 June 12.

Thursday, June 21, 2012

Detour


I had plans to continue with some groundwork, but feel the need to write this today.  Recently a friend wrote me an email regarding my first blog.  As I sat down to simply respond, it occurred to me that I have a problem.  It is very difficult to just “simply” respond.  Everything is layered upon layers.  It’s kind of like the following scenario:  As I come into work, someone asks, “How is it going?”  I’m caught with my mouth open… “Cricket” sound.  Such a simple question.  Where do I begin?  In my mind, it’s like that swollen moment in An Occurrence at Owl Creek Bridge, when Peyton Farquhar is finally sent to his death.  I contemplate all the events of the morning.  I think to myself:  ‘Well, I feel like I’ve been kicked in the shins with steel toes.  I woke up late.  The coffee grounds leaked into the pot.  Too acidic.  Especially in light of the fact that yesterday’s coffee was superlative ~ Nothing quite as powerful as disappointment ~ Then, I carried too much stuff to the car at once. The strap of my bag worked itself off my shoulder, dropped, and wrenched me forward.  It was then that I discovered I had not snapped the lid of my coffee shut. I burned my leg, and stained my pants.  I jerked so fast that I hit my left temple on the corner of the open car door.  I cussed so loud that I woke up my neighbor’s dog.  After gathering myself, I proceeded to load my scattered things into the car and turned toward the house in order to change my pants.  My belt loop caught on that cylinder part of the door latch mechanism and tore a hole in my pants.”  Are you kidding me?  What is this, Chris Farley Day?

Dooon’t wurry,” I say to myself with an Arnold Schwarzenegger accent, “Tooooday is paydayAnd yoooou have yoooour favorite coooookies in your luunch.”  Then, like Payton,” I snap back to a coworker’s crooked face, which is wondering why the question, ‘How’s it going?’ has produced sweat beads on my forehead.  I finally reply, “I’m Faaaaantaaaaastic.”  And, with a steamy hot tub smile, I blunder down the hallway.  It’s 8:07am.  The burn on my leg is rubbing against my pants.  I’ve got another twitch in my left eye.  I’m ready for bed.

“Mind travel” is not an uncommon occurrence for me.  As you will see, a simple email response turned into a novel.  But I think it sheds some light on where things are going:
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John,

I tried to comment on your letter but was somehow foiled in the end.

What you seem to be doing is self-introspection and you seem to have been doing it for a long time.  I remember some of our conversations and that was obvious.  Seeking Truth is an incredible journey but I wonder whether you are prepared for the results.  As you know, I think the journey takes you far from God and I wonder: Can you handle that? Can you give up quoting long dead mystics from the great books? Mystics who believed in superstitions, genies, angels and what not?

During my youth I sought Truth, found none and have, in fact, abandoned my search.    I stand naked under the sun, alone in the cosmos.   If your journey takes you there, will you join me?

Thanks for including me on your list…
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Dear “John Doe”,

Thanks for responding.  It is good to hear your thoughts.  First of all, I’m new at this blog thing.  It was recommended to me that I should set up my blog so that people have to click on the blue button on the right called “join this site” in order to comment.  It will supposedly minimize random people throwing out anonymous comments.

You are correct.  I am in a constant state of analysis and introspection.  There is a lot to unlearn.  I have found that deception infiltrates even the most sincere individuals.  Many of my teachers were, and are, misguided.  There has been so many times when I’ve put my faith into something only to be disappointed in the end, and then disillusion, alienation, and despair.  So, at times, I feel, like you say, alone in the universe, almost.  Ironically, and regardless of how lonely I get, I always find myself telling God about it.  Does that mean I’m full of faith or that I have an imaginary friend?  There could be arguments made for either.  I could be a bit of a nutcase with incoherent ramblings.  But, maybe not.

To be honest, there have been times when I have almost given up my faith due to emotional issues. (Not mine, but things like suffering in the world).  But I also study apologetics, science, and philosophy.  At this point in my research, the logical issues keep me on “the path,” even when my emotions rage against God.  Nothing else is even remotely coherent in terms of explaining things.  There are too many unanswered questions without the divine.

For instance, why do we seek meaning?  Why is there a cosmic “aloneness” to be identified and, at least connotatively, that the aloneness is sad?  Alone as opposed to what?  Sad compared to what?  Why is it that we wonder about any of this?  Isn’t there a reality out there that says we should not be alone, that we should not be sad?  I’m convinced that if people weren’t busy anesthetizing themselves, they’d gnaw off their tongues.  The question of meaning will not be silenced.  It’s what separates human beings from animals.  The question of meaning is what makes slave ships so reprehensible.  Unlike animals, people laid in their little wooden boxes wondering “WHY” am I here?  Why are these vicious white men treating me like a beast?  Why did my own black men help them capture me?  Why am I forced to defecate on myself?  I digress.  People believe they have purpose (either real or superficial), or attempt to escape purpose, or live in despair.  Sometimes it is a mixture of the three cycling through to eternity.  But it is virtually impossible to ignore the need for meaning.

As far as the uncertainty of the search goes, I’m never sure how prepared I am, but I forge onward nevertheless.  And, as you surmise, it is not as if I am at the beginning of the journey.  I’ve been rummaging around for a while now.  Fear and I are old friends.  But I’m more afraid to not know, than to know.  In my case, ignorance is not bliss.

I’m not sure what old vs. new or alive vs. dead mystics have to do with anything.  I’ve heard plenty of ludicracy in modern rhetoric.  In fact, it seems that, at times, the newer the voice, the more speculative it tends to be.  People write whole books in order to say nothing.  But how does one determine whether or not there is value in a person’s words?  What does a person use to measure whether or not something is ludicrous or laudable, superstitious or supernatural?  Or, if one does not have a measure, how does one even talk about anything?  No value can be allocated to anything.  There is no difference between eating a cheeseburger and slitting someone’s throat.  They are both just part of life.  Not good.  Not bad.  Just life.

Furthermore, it seems that there are two implications of what you said, “…I sought Truth, found none…” There either is truth that is unknowable, or there is no truth at all.  Both statements emerge as “truthful” or “absolute” statements.  I’m not sure how to get around the fact that there is “objectivity” out there.  Without it, sentences start to contradict each other.  And, if our subjectivity rules, we indirectly claim omniscience.  How else could someone say, ‘there is nothing true outside of what goes on in my own mind?’  Is that not self-deification?

If there is no truth, why try to convince someone of it?  If truth exists, where does it come from?  Why do we have this notion that we should be truthful, or honest, or honorable, or kind, or good, or loyal?  Why do we cringe at violence, or child marriage, or anything?  Atheism says that it just is.  Theology declares that one thing is right and the other is wrong.

I do seem to remember that you are more to the agnostic end of things.  I can relate to agnosticism far more than any other position.  There are many issues that lend themselves to the world of uncertainty.  But I have found things that I accept as certain.  Without them, everything starts to contradict itself.  Obviously, the law of noncontradiction is one.  Other things I accept:  gravity, birth, death, laws of thermodynamics, beauty, hate, and taxes.  One of my favorite apologists, Greg Boyd, said something that I will never forget.  ‘Start with what you know and work toward the things you don’t.’  That’s where I find myself.  I’ll follow it to wherever it may lead.

I’m glad I put you on the list too…

Sincerely,

John
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My friend responded back with some other great observations that caused me to think of other layers and layers of responses, ad infinitum.  I realized that I would have to pick up there a little later, because I need to establish my own groundwork in order for my comments to make sense in the long run.  So, until next time…

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